Definition: Warm heats occur for many reasons. In some warm heats, the body is preparing for reproduction and is not quite ready. Alternatively warm heats occur to rest and recuperate the body after reproduction. Warm heats can only occur if an omega is in a safe situation. Warm heats typically last 2-4 days.
When: Warm heats frequently occur in omegas ages 14-16/17, pregnant omegas, the first couple heats after having a child, and in omegas age 40 and older.
How to handle: Lots of cuddles and time with loved ones, keep them hydrated and fed.
Symptoms: Hazy, cuddly, fever, drowsy, thirsty, produces a sweet, not seductive, scent, nesting
Sexual heats
Definition: Sexual heats occur when the body is ready for reproduction. Typically last 2-6 days.
When: Sexual heats are more reuccurent in omegas ages 17/18-40.
How to handle: Sex and knots. Keep them hydrated, but do not force them to eat. Most omegas will not eat willingly during sexual heats.
Symptoms: Hazy, fever, restless, produces slick, produces a seductive scent, lack of appetite, nesting
Dry heats
Definition: The body is not ready to reproduce or prepare for reproduction. Occurs when the omega is in a bad physical condition, mental state, or environment. Usually painful. Alters the body and shuts down all biological functions involved in reproduction. Not healthy. Dry heats can last anywhere from 2-7 days.
When: Omegas in unsafe environments. Examples: physical, mental, or emotional abuse, no pack bonds or mate, unfamiliar location, lots of stress or anxiety.
How to handle: Take the omega to a nest or den. Do not leave them alone. Keep them hydrated, fed, and maintain physical contact. If the dry heat worsens, take the omega to the nearest hospital.
Symptoms: Hazy, cramps, separation anxiety, headache, fearfulness, high emotions or extremely emotionless, distressed scent
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You are an ancient Demon who has been bound to a tree. Centuries has past and the tree has been cut down into a rocking horse for a human infant. The child’s love for you has reached even your ancient heart.
Adoption is complicated because of secondary gender. There are three types of adoption:
1. Bonding
If a minor (anyone under the age of 18) breaks their familial bond intentionally, they have the opportunity to get themselves adopted by another pack. It should be known that breaking an existing familial bond, especially if the bond has been active for a long time, is very difficult. One cannot simply break a bond because of an argument with their pack mates or parents. Breaking a pack bond requires repeated abuse/trauma to the individual, severe neglect, or an extreme emotional reaction (ex. If a mother does not accept her daughter’s sexuality). Bonding is more common in minors over the age of 13.
Bonding adoption is a two step process, which must be provided to the government in order to keep the said minor out of the government’s custody (foster care and group homes).
The first step is to demonstrate a reciprocated pack bond between the minor and at least two members in their new pack, who are not minors. One of the bonds has to be with an appointed guardian, usually, but not always, the head of the pack. Pack bonds can be established in a few ways, the most common are:
A pack bite, usually on the wrist. This is the most common test as it is the most reliable.
Efficient scruffing, which only works if the minor in question considers the person scruffing them to be a pack member or parental figure. However, public scruffing is very embarrassing for the minor so most choose not to prove their pack bond using this method.
The second step is a 2-week accommodation check in. After two-weeks of living with the pack, a state official will come to do a thorough check in involving:
A home inspection, which can be complicated in the case of large packs. The home inspection involves examining the place the minor will be living, assessing the financial situation of the pack, and questioning the pack leader and guardian of the minor, sometimes they are the same person.
Proof of settlement: Are they nesting/ accepting the pack scent/ comfortable around pack mates?
Proof of enrollment in education
Witnessed interaction with at least 2 members of the pack. Witnessed interaction can be complicated because a government official watching the pack interact closely is extremely awkward and may result in incorrect reports, such as “the omega minor appeared to be nervous around his fellow pack mate” when it simply is not true. A lot of packs trying to adopt a minor through bonding have to put on a show in order for the interaction to be considered approved. This involves lots of scenting, chirping, purring, and play fighting.
If everything checks out, the government will approve the adoption.
In the case of a bonding adoption, the minor gets to choose their pack instead of the pack (or couple) choosing the minor. However, there are some issues with bonding. For one, the minor is now bonded to the entire pack, not just the couple who are their appointed guardians. Everyone in the pack needs to agree to bond adoption, and if they don’t, the adoption will fall through.
Bonding adoption is also very old fashioned. The government officials assessing the capabilities of the pack expect the minor to show that they have fully integrated with the pack, even if they have only been with the pack for two weeks. Many things they expect to witness, such as scenting, are intimate and uncomfortable for the pack to perform in front of a stranger.
The government official is also subjective. Yes, they follow guidelines, but really it comes down to how they view pack and whether they believe the minor fits in the pack. The pack may do everything right and still get denied adoption.
In order to pursue a bonding adoption, minors must get themselves a social worker and are then given up to one month to find a pack before they are put into foster care. However, this can encourage runaways who believe they need more than a month, resulting in homeless minors.
2. State
State adoptions occur after the minor in question is unable to find a pack, did not look for a pack, or their bond was broken because of death to whoever they were bonded to (parents or pack mates). The minor is put into foster care and will either go to a foster home or a group home.
A pack or couple looking for a child to adopt can find them this way. The process is not as complex in terms of bonding for state adoptions.
For one, proof of a bond is not required. The government does not expect minors to bond with the parents instantly and understands there is an adjustment period.
The state also gives the adopters a two-month adjustment period rather than a two-week adjustment period.
Although they do need witnessed interaction with other pack members, it is not to the same extent as bonding adoptions and is not as demanding on the minor.
In state adoptions, the legal paperwork is more important than the bond.
Truthfully, the government wants minors to be adopted because of their own strained resources so they are slightly more lenient when it comes to state adoptions.
The thing to keep in mind is that bond adoption minors and state adoption minors are treated very differently. Bond adoption minors must show almost immediate integration into the pack while state adoption minors are given more leeway. Because the process is so fast for bond adoptions, packs are less likely to be successful with this form of adoption than state adoption. If bond adoption fails to be approved, which is more likely to occur with minors over the age of 14, the pack can then pursue secondary adoption.
3. Secondary
Because the pack has “failed” bond adoption, they have a second chance. Secondary adoption is like a combination of state and bond adoption, but much more rigorous.
Surprise check-ins occur every three-weeks for six months straight.
The minor, if over the age of 15, must show proof of either community involvement, work, or community service.
Minors must demonstrate consistent belonging in the pack, which is just an extended witnessed interaction. The case worker must witness all of the following multiple times: nesting with other pack mates, scenting of two or more members, scruffing, pack instincts (such as taking care of others or being protective of the pack), and response to parental figures.
There is a lot of paperwork involved in secondary adoptions, just like state adoptions.
Yes! Alphas are very protective of their loved ones, however, this does not mean only in violent situations. Protectiveness is ingrained in the biology of alphas, as it was (and still is in most cases) their responsibility to keep the pack safe and well-taken care of. Alphas can be protective in ways such as always wanting their pack mates to be warm and cozy or making sure their pups are always fed.
2. All alphas are aggressive
No! Although dominance is a trait common to all alphas it can be established in many ways. Stating that all alphas are aggressive not only gives alphas a bad rap, but gives them permission to act in such dangerous ways.
3. Alphas are abusive
No! Alphas’ protective instincts usually interfere with abuse of all types because it simply goes against their biological hardwiring. In cases in which alphas do abuse their mates, pups, or pack mates, they have to actively ignore their instincts or think what they are doing is benefitting and protecting whoever they are abusing.
4. Alphas are power-hungry
Kinda! It honestly varies from alpha to alpha. Wanting power is not ingrained in an alpha, it is more of a personality trait. Omegas and betas can also be power-hungry, however, alphas may use their alpha status to validate their power-hungry tendencies.
5. Only alphas can be pack leaders
No! Alphas just want to protect their pack, if this means following a beta or omega’s lead, then they will happily do so. Some alphas may even step down as pack leader if they recognize that they are not the best leader for the pack.
6. Alphas can’t be single parents
No! Admittedly, it is harder for alphas to be single parents because they do not have the same hormones and biological functions that omegas have that assist in child growth, however, they certainly make up for it in other aspects. Single alphas are more tuned into the needs of their pups as alpha parents with a mate are and their biology (like their scent) can sometimes change to accommodate to their pup.
7. Alphas initiate courting first
Yes! Alphas usually initiate courting because of pack traditions and status stereotypes. However, some omegas have started initiating courting first to fight typical beliefs about gender and its role in society and the world.
8. Alphas only take care of their own pack members/family
No! Their protective instincts extend to whoever needs protection. Alphas tend to feel uncomfortable if they witness another person in an unwillingly disoriented state (like being drugged) or if someone is in a dangerous situation. Further all secondary genders will help a pup in need, no matter what.
9. Alphas have a voice used to command omegas and betas
Sometimes! Typically referred to as an “Alpha Voice”, it is a voice used to command omegas and sometimes betas. Only about 5% of alphas have an Alpha Voice, however, most alphas who do have an Alpha Voice don’t ever discover they have it, as it has to be used purposely, or they will have it removed via surgery.
No! Although omegas have submissive traits and instincts, they do not dictate their entire being and personality. Children used to be taught that omegas need intense submission to live and are bound by it, but misinformation like that was just used to control omegas. Forced submission to a point of abuse can damage omegas’ mental and physical health.
2. Omegas can purr
Yes! Almost all omegas can purr when they are happy or anxious. The only omegas who are unable to purr are ones that have a physical disability.
3. Omegas can’t do stressful jobs
No! Omegas can do stressful jobs and in some instances occupy more “stressful” jobs that require patience and understanding. Although less than alphas and betas (mostly because of stereotypes), omegas occupy jobs such as doctors, lawyers, and business managers.
4. Most omegas are female
No! About 54% of omegas are female while 46% are male
5. Omegas are emotional
Sometimes! Of course this varies from omega to omega, but generally omegas are not emotional messes that constantly need to be validated and coddled.
6. Omegas can’t control themselves around alphas
No! Omegas do not throw themselves at alphas and suggesting otherwise is offensive and rude. Omegas are strong and do not rely on alphas for happiness or for a purpose in life.
7. Omegas are the weakest secondary gender
No! Omegas may be perceived as the weaker gender because they have submissive tendencies, but they have strengths where alphas have weaknesses. They are more natural soothers, they are amazing at teamwork, they are more sensitive to other’s feelings, and generally more patient, to name a few.
8. All omegas nest
Yes! Omegas love nesting. Resisting the urge to nest is very difficult for omegas because it is a primary way they protect themselves and their pack.
9. All omegas want children
No! That being said, a lot of omegas DO want pups of their own, whether it be adoption or biological. Omegas may be happy staying childless or taking care of pups in their pack that are not biologically theirs.
10. Omegas only want sex
No! Omegas want change! This stereotype makes the world dangerous because some alphas and betas believe they have a right to bend over any omega on the sidewalk because the omega “wants it.” It also harms them in the work place because other genders may just see them as the office sl*t and not take them seriously.
11. Omegas are always the stay at home parent/pack member
No! Yes, it is rare to see omegas as the breadwinners of their family or pack, but it is becoming more common as the world develops and accepts omegas.
12. All omegas are messy
Kinda! Omegas may not intentionally be messy, but leaving their scent around their space is instinctual and what may be messy to other genders is comfort for omegas. For some omegas, the instinct is not as severe as others so they are able to be more clean. That being said, the mess is usually an organized mess, and omegas can fight their instincts if they do want a more clean space.
Definition: Natural ruts are organic ruts that are not triggered by an omega’s heat. An alpha’s body does not need to prepare for reproduction or extreme biological change, so natural ruts are not as frequent as heats. Ruts have a similar purpose to sexual heats, to find a mate and breed. Natural ruts last 1-4 days.
When: Natural ruts occur 2-3 times a year in alphas of all ages. Ruts tend to stop/slow down around the age of 55.
How to handle: Easier to go through with a mate/partner, however, if there is no partner, fellow pack members and loved ones can calm the alpha down and turn the rut mellow and non-sexual. Sex, cuddles, keep fed and hydrated.
Symptoms: Possessive behavior of mate and pack members, aroused state, restless, produces protective and, usually, seductive scent.
Induced ruts
Definition: Induced ruts can occur for two reasons. 1. An alpha’s mate/partner goes into heat. 2. They take a supplement that will send them into rut if they want to have pups. It is important to note that ruts cannot be caused by unfamiliar omegas. When packs were more primitive and had to fight for territory, rival packs would send their omegas in heat to lure enemy alphas in and kill them, leaving the alphas’ pack vulnerable. Induced heats last the duration of the heat which induced it or, if medically induced, about 1-3 days.
When: Occurs when a significant other goes into heat or medically activated. Common in alphas ages 18-50. Induced ruts can occur as often as once every two months.
How to handle: Let them be with their partner. Sex is the best solution.
Symptoms: Possessive behavior of mate, aroused state, restless, produces protective and seductive scent, fever.
Male omegas present earlier than female omegas because male omegas’ bodies need more time to physiologically prepare and change for reproduction. Alpha females present earlier than alpha males for the same reason.
Presentation in omegas and alphas is marked by the first heat or rut they experience.
If a person has not presented by the age of 16 and suspects they are a beta, they can get tested at a doctor’s office. Beta testing is illegal before the age of 16.
Betas do present, however, it is extremely subtle. The only indication of a beta presentation is a slight change is scent. Researchers hypothesize this change can occur between the ages of 13-18.
